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012 Dialog Between Sammy Khan And Madi

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Hello, thank you for visiting Allah’s Word. How may I help you?
Madi

Hi, i want to know why God doesn’t allow muslim people to wear what they please? Surely it is their right, no?
Sammy khan

thank you for your question Sammy
Madi

No problem
Sammy khan

a person is definitely allowed to wear what they like as long as it doesn’t go against the extent that should be modestly covered 🙂
Madi

we understand that God Almighty, our Creator, always commands what is good for us 🙂
and only forbids what is harmful to us 🙂
Madi

What if they have a strong faith in God but want to wear as please?
Sammy khan

What do you mean by harmful?
Sammy khan

are you questioning the modest wear? meaning it is not permissible to wear extremely short pants for both men & women
Madi

they can choose any style they please, yet they should appear modest per God’s guidance 🙂
Madi

No. I’m questioning why women are not allowed to wear anything, from shirts to crop tops to pants to shorts 🙂
Sammy khan

Allah says in the Quran:” This is more appropriate so that they may be known [as Muslim women] and thus not be harassed [or molested]”
Madi

What if someone was wearing a crop top with a longer jumper and jeans, I don’t think that would lead to harassment or being molested ?
Sammy khan

you see my friend, God simply prescribes the Cover (or Hijab) for women to cover their physical beauty for protection, to appear modest and conservative, refusing to be physically attractive to others, and aiming to be looked at beyond their appearance.
Madi

The Muslim women demands to be judged by her character & intellect. and they are concerned to be physically attractive to their husbands alone.
Madi

so by wearing Hijab the Muslim woman tells you all that without even saying it!
just by appearing modest 🙂
Madi

I agree with what is being said, however what if someone does it for self confidence and for themself instead of trying to be physically pretty for others
Sammy khan

I understand what you mean, but let us not forget that this guidance is from our Creator Himself, so He knows what is best for us.
Madi

So even if the woman wasn’t her intention to attract other men, yet she can’t control whither men will be attracted to her or not..
Madi

so this guidance is based on understanding the nature of humans, both males and females
Madi

People back in the day, even as muslims would dress topless and all, wasnt it a crime back then in Islam? 🙂
Sammy khan

Islamic teachings haven’t change, and what some Muslims do doesn’t affect the actual teachings of Islam, as they are crystal clear. So Islam is perfect, but people are not.
Madi

Your probably wondering why im questioning so much, as you can tell, my name is Sammy Khan, My husbands name is Rohail Khan, i asked his sister to get out her bikini as we were going to the beach and she said it wasnt allowed, i grew up as an athiest and went to a catholic school, yh makes no sense, but i was confused and came here to talk to you, and that makes sense
Sammy khan

I truly appreciate that you are sharing this Sammy, and I also appreciate you coming here 🙂
Madi

So if i was a muslim and didnt abide to the rule of modest clothing, would that be a huge sin because being part of a muslim is to make sure that the 5 pillars of Islam is perfect and you surely commit to it, so if i didnt wear modest clothing, would it be a huge hufge sin?
Sammy khan

that’s a good question
Madi

Thank you 🙂
Sammy khan

What would you consider more sinful? Wearing unmodest clothing or not abiding the 5 pillars of Islam?
Sammy khan

Islam is basically your relationship with the Creator, the One who brought us to existence in the first place, and the One to whom we will all eventually return to, every relationship can be either strong, or neutral or weak or an alternation between.. so what you decide to do to please God depends on the strength of your relationship with Him.
Madi

A woman who doesn’t wear Hijab is still Muslim, yet it means she needs to work harder in strengthening her relationship with God, in order to reach a level in this relationship in which she start doing things or giving up things to please God, not because she ‘have’ to, but because she truly ‘wants’ to, out of love & devotion 🙂
Madi

as Muslims, we should spend our whole life trying to achieve that level of strength in our faith 🙂
Madi

and the point is, to never stop trying, even if we experience very weak relationship with God, the door for forgiveness & repentance is always open, you just have to pick yourself up and try again 🙂
Madi

Thats a very good answer 🙂
Sammy khan

I’m glad it made sense to you Sammy 🙂
Madi

i have to go now. Bye 🙂
Sammy khan

thank you Sammy for your kind visit, please feel free to come again to talk a bit more about this 🙂
Madi

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